Life
You’re Not Burned Out. You’re Depleted.
For a long time, I thought I was burned out. That seemed like the most reasonable explanation. Military life is… Read More
When “Resilience” Becomes Chronic Deprioritization
There’s a phrase that floats around military communities like a badge of honor. Military spouses are “resilient.” We say it… Read More
The Quiet Grief of Military Goodbyes
No one prepares you for the grief of military friendship. It feels dramatic to say you’re grieving someone who isn’t… Read More
When One Friend Becomes Everything
There’s a temptation in military life to put all your relational weight on one person. She’s your emergency contact.Your vent… Read More
When “Strong” Starts to Feel Exhausting
There’s a certain pride in military life. We handle things. We adapt. We “make it work.” But sometimes you hit… Read More
Spring Bucket List for Military Families (No Leave Required)
Spring in military life can feel like a waiting room. Waiting for PCS orders.Waiting for deployment dates.Waiting for summer plans.… Read More
Living in Compressed Time: Why It Makes Friendship Feel Intense
Military life compresses time. Birthdays feel more meaningful because someone might move next year. Holidays are cherished because family isn’t… Read More
Why Military Friendships Form So Fast
There’s a moment in military life that almost feels predictable. You meet another spouse at a playground, chapel event, school… Read More
What I Wish I Knew Before My First PCS (That No One Told Me)
Your first PCS feels official. Like you’ve unlocked the “real” version of military life. No one tells you that it’s… Read More
Intentional in the Ordinary: A Hello From Your Friend Next Door
If we haven’t met yet, I’m Teri — a military spouse of ten years, mom of two school-aged girls, and… Read More