Life
Just Checking In! 3 Reasons to Reach Out Even When It’s Awkward
We woke up to the three letter word that changes everything in our community. War. Breaking News begins the cycle… Read More
No Blueprint, No Script: Perfecting the Pivot in Military Life
I am not here to tell you what to do. I’m here because I’ve lived long enough in military life… Read More
When Everything Familiar Changes: Navigating Culture Shock After a PCS Abroad
My family has PCSed to the UK on two separate occasions. You would think that we would have known what… Read More
When Military Life Becomes “Unique”
I’ve always believed that unique was a good quality, one to be sought after. Following your own heart and desires,… Read More
You Fought for Others — Now Fight for Yourself
Advocating for yourself is not something most veterans were trained to do. We were trained to complete the mission. We… Read More
You’re Not Burned Out. You’re Depleted.
For a long time, I thought I was burned out. That seemed like the most reasonable explanation. Military life is… Read More
When “Resilience” Becomes Chronic Deprioritization
There’s a phrase that floats around military communities like a badge of honor. Military spouses are “resilient.” We say it… Read More
The Quiet Grief of Military Goodbyes
No one prepares you for the grief of military friendship. It feels dramatic to say you’re grieving someone who isn’t… Read More
When One Friend Becomes Everything
There’s a temptation in military life to put all your relational weight on one person. She’s your emergency contact.Your vent… Read More
When “Strong” Starts to Feel Exhausting
There’s a certain pride in military life. We handle things. We adapt. We “make it work.” But sometimes you hit… Read More