Life

Just Checking In! 3 Reasons to Reach Out Even When It’s Awkward

We woke up to the three letter word that changes everything in our community. War. Breaking News begins the cycle… Read More

No Blueprint, No Script: Perfecting the Pivot in Military Life

I am not here to tell you what to do. I’m here because I’ve lived long enough in military life… Read More

When Everything Familiar Changes: Navigating Culture Shock After a PCS Abroad

My family has PCSed to the UK on two separate occasions. You would think that we would have known what… Read More

When Military Life Becomes “Unique”

I’ve always believed that unique was a good quality, one to be sought after. Following your own heart and desires,… Read More

You Fought for Others — Now Fight for Yourself

Advocating for yourself is not something most veterans were trained to do. We were trained to complete the mission. We… Read More

You’re Not Burned Out. You’re Depleted.

For a long time, I thought I was burned out. That seemed like the most reasonable explanation. Military life is… Read More

When “Resilience” Becomes Chronic Deprioritization

There’s a phrase that floats around military communities like a badge of honor. Military spouses are “resilient.” We say it… Read More

The Quiet Grief of Military Goodbyes

No one prepares you for the grief of military friendship. It feels dramatic to say you’re grieving someone who isn’t… Read More

When One Friend Becomes Everything

There’s a temptation in military life to put all your relational weight on one person. She’s your emergency contact.Your vent… Read More

When “Strong” Starts to Feel Exhausting

There’s a certain pride in military life. We handle things. We adapt. We “make it work.” But sometimes you hit… Read More