military life

10 Creative Ways to Say I Love You From the Homefront

One of the challenges of deployment as a spouse is finding a creative way to express how much you miss… Read More

Our Landscape Has Changed

(photo credits: photo pin) 11 years have now passed since the morning we all watched in disbelief as we were… Read More

A Note To My Younger Self

It's probably a good thing I had no idea what I was getting into twenty-four years ago when I fell… Read More

Top 5 Tips For Living Overseas

Being a newlywed, I had no idea what to expect when my husband was given orders to Italy. At the… Read More

Where Do MANspouses Go For Resources?

(Picture is of Wayne and his wife.) There is something to be said regarding the importance of a military spouse… Read More

Cookbooks and Combat Boots

I am not a professional chef. I do not hold a culinary degree from Le Cordon Bleu, nor have I… Read More

Dear Frustrated – She is Still His Mother, You Need to Respect That

(You can email your questions to sally at sallyspouse@milspouse.com) Dear Sally, My husband will be getting home from deployment soon… Read More

Dear Dejected – This Really Isn’t About YOU

Dear Sally, My husband deploys for the first time very soon. I support him 100%, but of course I am… Read More

Lessons From a Lightly Salted Spouse

You've heard the stories. You know, the stories from all of the military spouses that came before you? I've heard… Read More

Dear Overly Sensitive Wife

Dear Sally, A friend of mine recently showed me several websites and Facebook pages that really disturb me! They all… Read More

My New Outlook on Family

I had no idea what I was getting into when I married my husband. I don't think anyone really does… Read More

My Decision to Stay Home

Growing up, I was never the girl with a set life plan. I did not know at age three what… Read More

It’s A BIG Family, Baby!

Yesterday was a long day. In the morning I received word that one of my best friends, Kate, was in… Read More

How The Navy Made Me Cancel My Wedding

The day I chose my wedding gown stands out as one of the most exciting of my life. On a… Read More

You’re in the Club: Military Recreation Areas

In a life that requires multiple deployments, frequent moves and single parenthood every TDY, sometimes a military family just needs… Read More

5 Rules for the Best Possible Reintegration

by Tim Blake, Army spouse I told my wife in the weeks before she came home from Afghanistan: Reintegration is… Read More

I Finally Found My Way Home

Home. As the years pass, I find it more difficult to define this word. Webster defines home as: "One's place… Read More

Beyond The Bumper Sticker: 10 Ways Americans Can Support the Military Family

Yesterday, many Americans paused to honor those who have served and continue serving in our nation's military. Flags were flown… Read More