military marriage

6 Ways to “Fall” In Love With Your Military Spouse Again

Maybe it's because my birthday is over Labor Day weekend, but I always think of fall and the start of… Read More

There Are No Losers When You Compromise in a Military Marriage

We have all heard the saying “opposites attract.” And while that is very handy to know when dealing with magnets,… Read More

Avoid These 7 Communication Pitfalls in Your Military Marriage

Originally posted on Verdant Oak Behavior Health By Diane Thorp, California Licensed Psychotherapist Often couples come to me asking for… Read More

34 Things We Wish We Had Known About Milspouse Life

No matter how familiar you are with the military culture, no matter how prepared you think you are to embrace… Read More

4 Ways to Own Who You Are Not Just Who Your Spouse Is

Raise your hand if you’ve had a similar experience: You’re in a room with military spouses, who are meeting for… Read More

We Don’t Have Children, But We Are Still A Family

My husband and I have been married for five years and he has been in the Army for three years.… Read More

20 Lessons From 20 Years Married to my Servicemember

As the date to our vow renewal quickly approaches, I look back over the 23 years of our relationship and… Read More

5 Ways to Make Military Marriage Work Across the Miles

“In my defense…I forgot you were home.” I’m embarrassed to even admit this, but I actually spoke the above words… Read More

Why Eloping Is Worth It

I was the little girl who dreamed of a big white wedding from the time I was old enough to… Read More

Our “Rushed” Military Marriage Isn’t Crazy At All

“If the point is to be together, then let’s just be together.” That’s what I told my then-boyfriend when he… Read More

MINImoons: What to Do When the Honeymoon Hasn’t Happened

“I AM taking you someplace EXOTIC...we’re moving to JAPAN!” -Hubby This was three years after we had been married. So…… Read More

Dear New Spouse of a Scary MOS, Welcome to the Fight Club

To the New Spouse of a Scary MOS: You know who you are. Welcome to our tribe. You may or… Read More

What It’s Like to be a MCPON’s Wife

On a blustery January day in 2016, Master Chief Petty Officer of the Navy Mike Stevens and his wife, Theresa,… Read More

Military Marriage: Accelerated, But Not Rushed

With the celebrating of Valentine's Day, you can’t help but reminisce about your own love story. When I met my… Read More

How to Show Demonstrable Love Male MilSpouse Style

There is no moment more fitting to express love through saying “Thank You” than this romantic time of year. The… Read More

7 Truths That Exist in Solid Marriages

Eighteen, 1-8, 10 plus 8, or otherwise known as my age when I changed my status to “married.” I didn’t… Read More

The 3 Pillars to Live a Satisfied Life

As we go about our lives, it is very easy to get caught up in the monotony of the daily… Read More

5 Ways to Ignite Passion With Your Spouse

I love my Marine. He is smart and funny and oh-so handsome. I have seen him this way since we… Read More