military spouse

I Don’t Fit the Military Spouse Mold

Stereotypes. I know we all hate them but they are still there, especially within the military community. One of the… Read More

25 Silly Things We Do During Deployment

A deployment is an interesting thing. Even though most of us are accustomed to surviving (and even thriving) while our… Read More

The Truth About Sex After Homecoming

This writer has chosen to remain anonymous. “Sexually frustrated for your freedom” “Do not disturb, my sailor’s home” It’s easy… Read More

Military Spouse Madness

If you think March Madness is just about basketball, you’re wrong. The event pulls more national television revenue than any… Read More

Deployment Battle Plan

1. Stay Busy This might be the advice you hear most from other spouses who have been through a deployment.… Read More

Dear Mindy, I’m Scared Sick

Dear Mindy, I am newly married and my husband just finished basic training. We are set on our very first… Read More

Racing Facebook: Respecting the Power of Social Media

By Jill Qualters “I am your worst nightmare.” On Sept. 22, 2013, Theresa Jones opened her front door to find three… Read More

Hiding in the Silent Ranks

I have always been patriotic at heart. Growing up and even now, still I romanticize about the sacrifice, loss and… Read More

Deployment by the Numbers

7 months, 217 Days, .59 years… It sounds so small, so precise, so easily attainable. So much has happened though,… Read More

Just a Retiree Spouse

By Mindy Brewster JUST a retiree spouse. I know it has been talked about before. A little thing called stereotypes.… Read More

Kindness and Friendship

Life is better with friends. Life is better when we show kindness to others. We all need friends, don’t we?… Read More

When Your Base Sucks

When my husband got the call that he was going to be accepted in the Air Force there were a… Read More

Guess Which One Suffers From PTSD?

“Screaming with tears running down her face, covering her ears, my ten year old daughter refused to go to the… Read More

Deployment #2 (or 3 or 4!) Is Hard Too!

I can't even count the number of times I've heard the phrase, "Well, this is your 5th (or 6th or… Read More

Mom’s Chocolate Chip Cookies

Betty Crocker I am not. I am great at cooking, but baking has always alluded me. However, when my big,… Read More

35 Common MilSpouse Mistakes

Military life. Sometimes it can seem like it’s a whole different world; acronyms, customs and traditions, a different uniform for… Read More

Rank Wars: Reality or Urban Legend?

The other day I joined a discussion on a Facebook page about spouses who “wear their husband’s rank.” Most of… Read More

Spouse Confession: Life is Messy

Let’s be honest for a moment. Life is messy. There are days the dishes are still in the sink the… Read More