military spouse
I Don’t Fit the Military Spouse Mold
Stereotypes. I know we all hate them but they are still there, especially within the military community. One of the… Read More
25 Silly Things We Do During Deployment
A deployment is an interesting thing. Even though most of us are accustomed to surviving (and even thriving) while our… Read More
The Truth About Sex After Homecoming
This writer has chosen to remain anonymous. “Sexually frustrated for your freedom” “Do not disturb, my sailor’s home” It’s easy… Read More
Military Spouse Madness
If you think March Madness is just about basketball, you’re wrong. The event pulls more national television revenue than any… Read More
Deployment Battle Plan
1. Stay Busy This might be the advice you hear most from other spouses who have been through a deployment.… Read More
Dear Mindy, I’m Scared Sick
Dear Mindy, I am newly married and my husband just finished basic training. We are set on our very first… Read More
Racing Facebook: Respecting the Power of Social Media
By Jill Qualters “I am your worst nightmare.” On Sept. 22, 2013, Theresa Jones opened her front door to find three… Read More
Hiding in the Silent Ranks
I have always been patriotic at heart. Growing up and even now, still I romanticize about the sacrifice, loss and… Read More
Deployment by the Numbers
7 months, 217 Days, .59 years… It sounds so small, so precise, so easily attainable. So much has happened though,… Read More
Just a Retiree Spouse
By Mindy Brewster JUST a retiree spouse. I know it has been talked about before. A little thing called stereotypes.… Read More
Kindness and Friendship
Life is better with friends. Life is better when we show kindness to others. We all need friends, don’t we?… Read More
When Your Base Sucks
When my husband got the call that he was going to be accepted in the Air Force there were a… Read More
Guess Which One Suffers From PTSD?
“Screaming with tears running down her face, covering her ears, my ten year old daughter refused to go to the… Read More
Deployment #2 (or 3 or 4!) Is Hard Too!
I can't even count the number of times I've heard the phrase, "Well, this is your 5th (or 6th or… Read More
Mom’s Chocolate Chip Cookies
Betty Crocker I am not. I am great at cooking, but baking has always alluded me. However, when my big,… Read More
35 Common MilSpouse Mistakes
Military life. Sometimes it can seem like it’s a whole different world; acronyms, customs and traditions, a different uniform for… Read More
Rank Wars: Reality or Urban Legend?
The other day I joined a discussion on a Facebook page about spouses who “wear their husband’s rank.” Most of… Read More
Spouse Confession: Life is Messy
Let’s be honest for a moment. Life is messy. There are days the dishes are still in the sink the… Read More