Reintegration

The Hard Work of Falling in Love After Deployment…Again

About six months ago my husband returned from his third deployment overseas. True to military life: the deployment, homecoming and… Read More

I Adore My Husband, But I Might Need an Alibi Soon

I feel like I should start this off with a disclaimer, because first of all I don't want people getting… Read More

My Honest Thoughts the Week Before Homecoming

This is the final countdown… 7 Days… Did I really buy that dress for homecoming!? No. No way! Not happening.… Read More

Sacrifice by Morgan Slade

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A Family That Stays Together…

My husband and I made the best decision (so far) of his military career in 2014. After returning from an… Read More

Reintegration Struggles

I remember my first year as a brand new military spouse that I heard a lot of buzz about the… Read More

The Truth About Sex After Homecoming

This writer has chosen to remain anonymous. “Sexually frustrated for your freedom” “Do not disturb, my sailor’s home” It’s easy… Read More

Deployment #2 (or 3 or 4!) Is Hard Too!

I can't even count the number of times I've heard the phrase, "Well, this is your 5th (or 6th or… Read More

Why We Chose to Live Apart

It’s funny how our opinions on certain things change as our life experience shifts. For the majority of my marriage… Read More

20 Ways To Stay Strong On The Homefront

I remember going through my first deployment with my husband. We were married only three weeks before he departed. The… Read More

Why Is Reunion Harder Than It Looks?

By Dr. Leanne Knobloch, University of Illinois     One of the best-kept secrets about deployment is that reunion can be really… Read More

Those Dreaded Words, “We Need To Talk”

Guest Author: Rachel Engel, Air Force spouse As completely cliche as it sounds, my first serious boyfriend actually used the… Read More

Nervous About Nookie After Deployment

Dear Sally, My husband comes home from his first deployment soon. We have only been married a little over a… Read More

Get Happy at Home – Tips for Reintegration

(Photo credits by: Photo Pin) After almost 10 years of marriage and eight deployments, sometimes it seems like it's harder… Read More

Homecoming Fantasy

Back in May when my husband deployed, I was as ready as I could be to deal with it. It… Read More

5 Rules for the Best Possible Reintegration

by Tim Blake, Army spouse I told my wife in the weeks before she came home from Afghanistan: Reintegration is… Read More

Re-Negotiate Togetherness

photo by Brynja Sigurdardottir, Air Force spouse After a long separation, it's normal to feel both anticipation and anxiety. Will… Read More

When Your Husband is a Caveman: Feeling the 90/10

You've waited patiently while your spouse was deployed. You've single-parented, been everyone and everything thing, and dreamt night and day… Read More