Relationships

Love Languages, But Make it Military…

The classic love languages are great in theory—until military life starts limiting your options. When time together is scarce, love… Read More

Loving Someone in Uniform: How to Stay Connected When the Schedule Isn’t

Military relationships don’t struggle because of lack of love. They struggle because time, distance, and unpredictability constantly interfere. Connection takes… Read More

Keeping Your Sex Life During Deployment

Modern intimacy tips for military couples facing long-distance separation. Deployment changes a lot of things in a relationship — your… Read More

Spouse Confessions: I Hate My Mother-In-Law

My husband and I have been married for nearly 17 years. We got married right after he graduated from college… Read More

It’s Time To Put Down The Pitchforks

When controversy strikes, I know exactly what will happen…my liberal friends will push an agenda calling my conservative friends racist,… Read More

I Need A Village

One week after my husband deployed my little boy amputated the upper portion of his index finger on his dominant… Read More

Why You Need To Make Mistakes

Being a Pollyanna, seeing the world through rose colored glasses, living on cloud nine. As a generally positive person, I… Read More

We Need To Find Our Big People Pants: Building A Stronger Community

The park while children play is most often the place of adult interaction these days. Ironically enough, any topic seems… Read More

10 Things To Know When Someone You Love Has Anxiety

As military families we recognize that our lives will never be free of struggle. These same struggles are often times… Read More

The 3 Pillars to Live a Satisfied Life

As we go about our lives, it is very easy to get caught up in the monotony of the daily… Read More

3 Really Great Reasons You Should Use This Tool to Help Your Marriage

Have you ever noticed that the things that drive us crazy about our spouse/significant other are also the very same… Read More

Beyond Valentine’s Day: Show Your Spouse Love Even During Deployment

Every military spouse experiences holidays without their husband or wife, but many of us try to make the most of… Read More

Winter Doldroms: 2 Steps to Changing Your Icy Feelings About Your Body Image

As I stood in the Ballroom J of the JW Marriott in downtown Austin on March 15, 2015 getting mic’ed… Read More

The Infamous Christmas Truce – Then & Now

The year was 1914 and the world was immersed in war- the Great War. A war that many envisioned to… Read More

Is “Sacrifice” the Right Word for a Military Spouse?

Recently I was having a conversation with someone who did not have any personal ties to the military. No one… Read More

The Hard Work of Falling in Love After Deployment…Again

About six months ago my husband returned from his third deployment overseas. True to military life: the deployment, homecoming and… Read More

3 Reasons Self-Care Should Be A Priority

I work in crisis services at a domestic violence shelter, so it goes without saying that self-care is vital to… Read More

10 Romantic Military Photos You Will Love

Picture taken by Peter Kapasakis, James River Photography Call me cheesy, but I love this time of year. (and we… Read More