3. Fatherhood and military service are not diametrically opposed.
There’s a line in the movie “We Were Soldiers” that describes the correlation between being a solider and a father. In the film, Mel Gibson profoundly states: “I hope that the one makes me better as the other.” Fatherhood means sacrifice. Sacrificing your space, your steak, your drinks, your interests and your time. Military service means sacrifice. Each sphere demands devotion, selflessness and a fierce dedication to protect and love someone other than oneself. Your role as service member can reinforce your role as a father.
4. Perhaps the most important thing you need to know is this: I SEE YOU.
Everyone always talks about the obvious obstacles: the “you have to miss the milestones and the important occasions,” and the “you’ll be absent from the memories.” These are the poster struggles. But these hardships merely brush the surface. I see your other struggles. The ones you bring home from “work,” and war.
I see the struggles you make to fight between two worlds that sometimes create a gravitational pull in two different directions. I watch you push through. I watch you put forth an effort to be the best you can be for the people you love and the people you serve. I see you. I admire you. Thank you for being willing to do two of the most difficult jobs on the planet.
Your example is one that I am so proud to have our children emulate. Today and everyday I hope your heart is full in knowing that your efforts as a both a father and service member are appreciated and celebrated.
