This base is full of internet tough guys who just spend all day on their phones bad mouthing each other and complaining about having nothing to do. Oh my goodness, the things these women say about one another on these Facebook groups is horrifying. They insult, tease and ridicule each other worse than any mean girls in high school. Someone actually posted a picture of a woman on New Years Eve on the board just so everyone could make fun of her outfit. Seriously!? Who are you to judge that woman, at least she went out and had a good time with her husband instead of just staying at home, scrolling through your phone.
This place seriously gives a whole new meaning to ‘Embrace The Suck’.
I thought being a military spouse was supposed to be about love, respect and support. Being able to turn to each other no matter what for help and guidance. Instead, I found myself in the middle of a hornets nest full of buzzing women ready to attack and ridicule at every turn. I found laziness where there should be attentiveness and judgment where there should be support.
I can honestly say I tried my damnedest. From trying to start my own groups to trying to work with the base commander’s wife, but nothing would ever happen. I never give up on things unless I truly see no point and as for this base, I am done. I have unfollowed the spouse groups and handed over the groups I started to others more able and willing to deal with drama and heartache associated with being their leader.
I am so happy for the few friends I have and my monthly bunco group, otherwise I would lose my mind. But I know every single one of those ladies can’t wait to get orders and see this base for last time in their rearview mirror, just like me.
Have you been in a similar situation? How did you get through it?
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