4. Salute
There are few sights that are more heartwarming than seeing the entire post (including children playing in the front yard) stop whatever they are doing at 5:00, turn to face the American flag and salute while Reveille is played by the Bugler.
This daily habit may not seem applicable to our lives as milspouses, but the practice of taking time out of every day to pay respects and show gratitude is extremely valuable.
Our lives seem to get consumed with work and personal demands and it can be very difficult to remember to show gratitude. We as military spouses should also schedule in two to three minutes in each day to stop whatever we are doing and show gratitude for everything we are blessed with in our lives.
When I started doing this, it felt forced, but as the days went on it became much more natural. I am continually surprised by how many doors open and how many new relationships are formed by simply taking the time to show sincere gratitude to those around me.
Although I have no desire to join the Armed Forces myself, I am thankful for the opportunities it has provided for my family.
I am also thankful for the routines, rituals, and habits that shape our daily life.
I have found that by instituting the above-mentioned habits alongside my solider, my efficiency and effectiveness have increased significantly- both personally and professionally.
And it’s is fun to feel like I have a closer connection with my spouse who is often away doing those VERY SAME habits!
