How It’s Worked for Us
I am by no means a homeschooling purist who thinks it’s the only way to educate children or that it’s the best decision for every family. It’s not. But as I look back over the years, I know it was the right choice for us. As we’ve been stationed across the world, homeschooling has taken on many different forms for us: co-ops, charter schools, dual enrollment, enrichment classes, and more. I love that there are so many educational choices and we can each select what works best for our particular families!
Another benefit that I didn’t foresee was the freedom to vacation during the off season, or simply having the flexibility to take a break when my husband took leave or came home for R&R during deployments. We can also pick up and move any time during the school year with our portable school, as we are not wedded to a school calendar.
Common Fears about Homeschooling
When I speak to new or potential homeschoolers, some common fears and concerns crop up.
Is it legal? Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but each state governs homeschooling a little bit differently. Be sure to comply with the law in the state you’re stationed, not your home of record. If you’re living overseas, you usually don’t have to worry about that country’s educational laws since you’ll fall under the SOFA (status of forces agreements). For instance, homeschooling is illegal in Germany, but this does not apply to U.S. military stationed there. Many people have misconceptions about overseas situations. Homeschool Legal Defense Association and The Center for Homeschool Liberty can provide more legal information, as well as membership.
Socialization: How will my child make friends? Will he become a weird little hermit? Maybe. But, honestly, that is probably more to do with personality than schooling choices. I don’t mean to sound flip, but homeschooling is no longer rare and opportunities have exploded. I submit that there are likely far more enrichment and educational activities than you have time to attend, and with that, the opportunity for socialization. Even the most remote bases we’ve been assigned to have had homeschooling groups and activities.
I’m not patient enough to homeschool. Me neither. Seriously! If you’re under the assumption that being a homeschooling parent requires perfection, then please drop that notion right now. One truth about homeschooling is that your kids will see you day in and day out, warts and all. It’s taught me plenty of humility and the fine art of apologizing to my kids when needed. Now, if there are subjects you don’t feel you can teach, know that there are loads of resources at your disposal. Which brings me to…
